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5 Reasons Why I Won’t Be Spring Cleaning This Year

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So, I won’t be spring cleaning again this year. I’d love to tell you it’s because my house is so spotlessly clean that it doesn’t need a spring cleaning. But…

Okay, stop laughing.

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Though, Arya has a different kind of cleaning house in mind!

Top 5 reasons why I won’t be spring cleaning this year.

1. Seducing the Ice Queen won’t revise itself

I have finished writing the next novel in the Knights of Valor series, and I’m now in the process of editing it. If I’m going to have it ready by fall, I need to make time for it. That means less time for cleaning.

2. It’s not like it’ll stay clean

I have two children. Never in my life have I possessed so much plastic or so many toys. I’ve also learned that cleaning a room of said plastic and toys is no guarantee it will be clean five minutes later.

I’ve started enlisting my kindergartner’s help to clean up, and she gets even angrier than I do angry with her younger sister when we finish a room and come back five minutes later only to see her sister surrounded by a fresh pile of toys.

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Perfect analogy.

3. I have no helpful woodland creatures.

I’ve watched Cinderella, Snow White and Sleeping Beauty. The raccoons, possums, and squirrels in my backyard are far less accommodating.

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So disappointing!

4. It’s still cold.

I’d open windows and let in the fresh air, except I’d like the air to be above freezing for that. It’s hard to feel like spring cleaning when winter is still hanging around the state.

 

 5. I don’t really want to clean

I have a very demanding full time job, and when I get home, I’d rather be reading, playing games with the kids, going to the park (if it ever gets above freezing), or enjoying some video games. There are so many things I want to do that aren’t spring cleaning. Sure, we’ll do a few things here and there, but I won’t spend entire weekends cleaning the house. Welcome to the home of two working parents! Please enjoy the mess.

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How about you? Will you be spring cleaning this year? Why or why not? If you are, do you have a standard list of things you do? What are they?

 

8 Steps to Out with the Cold

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It’s that time of year. Time to move the heavy winter sweaters to storage and start bringing out the spring and summer gear.

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This feels like a Herculean task this year. First, I have to get both of my little ones situated. Then I turn to my own closet, but the steps I follow are pretty much the same for all three of us.

  1. Is It Damaged – Anything damaged that isn’t easily repaired (or that I’m willing to pay a tailor to repair) is turned into rags. No one is going to wear it. If it is easily fixed, it must be fixed now. If it isn’t fixed now, it’s never going to be.

2. Does It Fit – If it doesn’t fit me or the toddler, the garment in donated. If it doesn’t fit DD1, it gets boxed up and the box is labeled with the size and the appropriate season. This makes it so much easier when I bring them out for DD2.

3. Has It Been Worn – This is really only applicable to me versus the kids. But I try to look long and hard at what’s being taken down to storage. Did I wear it a lot that year? Maybe not at all? If not, why not? Was there something that bothered me: the style, the cut, the color? If so, I donate it. My taste is probably not going to change in a couple of months. This year, I am giving my big heavy sweaters a second chance. It simply wasn’t cold at all this winter, which is very, very odd. Other things, though, I was ruthless on.

4. Will the Child Wear It? – While DD2 is getting a lot of hand-me-downs from DD1, there are certain things she simply won’t wear. I donate them. Mornings are hard enough. I don’t need to add trying to get kids into clothes they hate.

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5. Create the List – If there is anything I am donating that clearly needs to be replaced (say a ripped winter coat), I make note of it so I will replace it rather than forget.

6. Repeat – Once this is completed for everything going into storage, I then have to take stock of everything coming out of storage for DD2 and me. I go through everything, pair up outfits, and make a list of what we need. This is especially critical so there are no orphans (you know, that pair of plaid trousers you had to have only to realize it matches nothing in your closet. Not that I’d know anything about that…).

7. Take Stock – I now need to take stock of what everyone needs to make it through the season, but especially DD1. She’s not getting any hand-me-downs, so I have to buy most of her stuff new or through consignment sales. I want a solid list of what she needs so I can hunt it down.

8. Shop – The joy of online shopping! Yes, I do most of my shopping online, even for the kids. I buy at a handful of stores, so I know their sizes. It’s not like I’d have them try on clothes if we went to a store, anyway. I’d love to say I’m a shopping pro, but the truth is, I’m not. I know there are ways to shop resell shops and save a lot, but that takes time and time is something I don’t have. My favorite places to shop all have free shipping and I can return to the brick-an-mortar store for free. Some even have free shipping on returns.

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As you can imagine, this is a huge undertaking, and I have to do it twice a year. Still, there’s a lotta things I have to be thankful for. The two amazing kids I do this for is a start.

I really envy my husband on this. Khakis and polo shirt. All year. *sigh*  Add this to my list of things I envy.

 

How about you? Do you have to switch clothes out for the season for you or your kids? How do you do it? Any tips for shopping for kids? I don’t shop after season sales because my kids growth spurts are too unpredictable right now, but there has to be others for busy moms.